Out of my hair!

I read some where one time that women subconsciously cut their hair after going through a break-up. It is supposed to represent that the person is "out of your hair." I think I hoarded this statement. Why, you ask? Well, this blog will tell you all about it.
I used to have LONG hair. I loved my long hair. It was beautiful. I cried every single time I had to even get a trim. My awesome stylist (Cara), who, by the way, is the only person allowed to touch my hair, refused to trim more than the ends, because, she too is a fan of long hair. And then, the long series of break-ups begin.
The first one was not so traumatic for me. So I just got a few inches cut off. The next, also not too traumatic, so only a few more inches. Though, they were not very far apart, so it looked like A LOT. This, of course was beyond my better judgement, and the judgement of Cara; but she was just doing as I asked. Of course, every style has looked amazing, but it is not the long hair I am used to. And then, I hit 3 break-ups in six months.
My hair went from mid-back length to just above my shoulders. They were big cuts every time, not just a little here and there. I miss my long hair, I just don't miss the men that made me lose my long hair. So I have posted a picture on my facebook profile of my in longer hair, as motivation to quit cutting it, regardless of a break-up. The man will be out of my hair regardless, I don't need a hair cut to prove that! I will also be informing Cara, NO MORE cuts, just trims. :) Of course, I know she will comply with this request.
I used to kid Cara that if I had another break-up I would not have any hair left, so the last break-up was a no hair cut break-up. I will leave him to be bald on purpose and leave the hair atop my head where it belongs, just sayin...